Joe Ryan
Trauma Recovery Podcast & Inner Work Coaching for Healing Childhood Trauma
I’ve Been Through The Emotional Shutdown, The Family Traps, The Buried Pain. Now I Guide Others To Break Free—not With Fluffy Talk Therapy, But Raw, Real Inner Work.
Break Free from Childhood Chains – Reclaim Your Untamed Self
The Weight You Carry Isn’t Yours—it’s The Silent Conditioning Of Childhood, The Emotions Locked Away, The Family Roles That Shaped A Version Of You That Never Felt True.
Coaching with Joe Ryan
Stop surviving your life. Start actually living it.
I’ve been through the emotional shutdown, the family traps, the buried shame, the rage I couldn’t name. No one guided me. Now I guide you—not with textbooks or feel-good affirmations, but with raw, precise inner work from someone who has worked through it and keeps evolving.
This is not traditional talk therapy. This is deep excavation: uncovering the hidden patterns that keep you stuck, dismantling the shame that quietly runs your choices, facing the anger and grief you’ve spent years avoiding, and building real autonomy so you stop chasing validation and finally stand solid in your own worth.
When you stop outsourcing your value to others, everything changes: better choices, healthier relationships, authentic thriving — even when you’re alone. From that grounded place, real freedom begins.
No pressure. Walk away with clarity and tools — whether we continue or not.
It’s Not You; It’s Your Trauma
Understand your patterns. Reclaim your power.
“It’s Not You; It’s Your Trauma, ” is a brutally honest podcast hosted by Joe Ryan, an Inner Work Coach who has survived childhood trauma, family dysfunction, abuse, and emotional neglect. It draws directly from real life — no polished theories, no safe distance. The podcast exposes how these early wounds quietly hijack adult thoughts, behaviors, relationships, and self-worth — often for decades.
No therapy-speak. No sugar-coating. No pretending.
Just straight, unfiltered conversations about anger, grief, codependency, family systems, masculinity, emotional shutdown, and the hard path of actual recovery.
This is the podcast for people who are tired of surface-level answers and ready to face what really happened.
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Consultation
One honest conversation
Stuck, spinning, or numb — but not sure why? This is where you stop guessing and start seeing clearly.
In a focused 30-minute Zoom call, we go straight to the core: the hidden patterns driving your frustration, relationship chaos, or emotional shutdown.
No performance. No pressure. No surface-level advice. Just unflinching honesty — we look at what you’re protecting, why the loop keeps playing, and what real change would actually take.
You’ll leave with fresh insight and practical tools you can use right away. One clear perspective can shift everything
Book Your Free 30-Minute Session →
Best case: you feel the shift and want to keep going.
Second best: you leave with the clarity you’ve been missing.
No obligation either way.
Latest Episodes
- When Peace Feels Like the Enemy
- EP 0097 – Anger and Resentments Are Gifts
- EP 0096 – Recovery Requires Legitimate Suffering
- EP 0095 – Grieving Regrets and Woke is Shameful (Subscription)
- EP 0094 – Sitting With Uncomfortable Feelings
- EP 0093 – Dating with Trauma: The Anxious Attacher’s Endless Chase (Subscription)
- EP 0092 – Ending Codependency
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